Some time ago, before the 9-11 tragedy, a friend and I turned a "wouldn't it be nice if" conversation into an opportunity to create a list of recreational activities we wanted to do. Priorities or a belief we "didn't have time" or it was financially "out of the question" would not temper the list. If we wanted, fantasy could take the lead.

We took turns until each of our lists was ten lines long.

Much was revealed by that written exercise. Although there were a few extravagances oriented to lavish, harder to reach pleasures (the 5 day sailing trip in the Mediterranean and a week in that house on the north end of Kauai) most of the choices were about self fulfillment:

• opportunity to learn to speak Spanish (I'm in a Spanish speaking country doing that as you read this),
• acquiring more skill on the electric piano (my friend's choice),
• full day hike at least once a month (also this week),

I was struck by how little effort would be required to take life to higher levels.

I ran across that list shortly after so many lives were ended too soon. I was happy to realize that both of us have fulfilled many of those "wanna do's." But there were a few I had put on the back burner and, as you can see, they've been moved to the forefront. I'm happy to say I had nothing to add. I also was aware of and grateful for the many wonderful experiences I've had that were NOT on that list. I've come to appreciate naps, and babies becoming toddlers, new friends who have filled the voids by those gone but not forgotten and MUCH more.

Consider making your own list this week. Once it's made, create an action plan that includes SMART goals for making your dreams come true.

• S= specific
• M = measurable
• A= action oriented
• R = realistic and relevant
• T = timelines

Now, you can make those dreams your reality. What are you waiting for?